What did Tilly think about Dr. Hutchings?

The man who eventually became her husband is portrayed in Tilly's narrative of the past as quiet, responsible, respectful and determined. His attraction to her, and eventual desire to dance with her, come as a considerable surprise to her, but a welcome one, his attentions proving to her that, in her own way, she can be as desirable as Delphine. An interesting aspect of this character is how Tilly, according to Howard's narration, only refers to him, with other people, as Dr. Hutchings. Referring to him in such a way is not intended to suggest that their marriage was formal or loveless, but rather a reflection of the habit of the times and the practices of respect and formality.