What is Wes' advice about Ben and Camelia? What is Kimmie's recommendation?

Camelia and Kimmie go to get ice cream at Brain Freeze. Wes shows up a moment later and asks about Camelia talking to Ben, because everyone else is talking about it. Wes and Kimmie caution against Camelia's desire to find out more about Ben and bring closure to the situation. Kimmie urges Camelia to find a nice boy, but Camelia disagrees.