Why is Flora frustrated about her time at Cold Comfort Farm and do you think she is being unrealistic in her expectations?

Flora has been on the farm a month but has not made the progress she hoped. She gave Adam a mop to clean the dishes, but he was so fascinated by its beauty he decided to hang it over the sink to admire and keeps using his twigs for the dishes. On her daily walks, Flora keeps an eye out for Elfine but never has a chance to speak to her. It seems no one wants to fulfill her plans for them. It is a bit unrealistic to think that she would have effected a huge amount of change in just one month.